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Dating Tips For Men: Make It Personal

Last week 2 people Jack and John cancelled their IJL membership. Why in the world did they do that?  Jenna said that they were frustrated that we communicated by phone and not via email. In this dating tip for men, we want to explain why IJL communicates with our clients in the personal manner which differentiates our service from others.

 In this digital age, it seems everyone is on the go go go.  We have relationships over the internet. We and breakup with one anther via  Skype. We understand all too well how busy our professionals are, but we want you to consider this: We know that you come to us for help. It is our mission to be the vehicle by which you find what you are looking for in a partner, whether that is just a date or an eventual spouse. Because of that we feel it is very important to communicate with you on a personal level. Your dating life, is not a business nor should it be treated as such.  We want to hear your reactions, excitement, disappointment and everything in between.  People are complex and we love our clients for that. It is critical to get to know who you are so that we can both work towards the perfect match.

There is so much that does not come through in emails. It is that relationship that enables us to be able to match you with someone based on more than who you are on paper.  A computer can match you on paper, and many do. Here at IJL DC we offer a service for those looking for that intangible, love.

How important is it for you to speak directly to your matchmaker?