The Bachelor; Kacie B. Understands It’s Just Lunch

Have you been watching this season of The Bachelor on ABC?  Your Dating Diva has found there are some interesting twists and turns here.  I am not sure if the producers are leading us down a path here but it seems to me there is only one woman who is keeping a good head on her shoulders. One woman who knows how to handle dates and dating a new person. One woman who Ben should probably end up with.  We can all learn some very valuable dating lessons from Kacie B.

Kacie B., seen here in yellow, has quite a different approach than the other women on the show. If you watch The Bachelor, you know of the tumultuous relationship amongst the women in the house.  Courtney has been accused of being two faced, a different person on dates with Ben Flajnick than she is with the girls. Emily spent her only one-on-one date time with Ben, calling Courtney out. Although it seemed that she told him because she genuinely did not want to see him be fooled, Emily wasted her time talking about another woman. This did not go  over so well with Ben, no matter what the actual intent!

There are other women on The Bachelor who also spend their time either talking about the competition, or complaining about the other girls.  Now I ask you, is this acceptable date conversation under any circumstance?

Kacie B. on the other hand, must have taken a page from Your Dating Diva’s handbook.  It’s our mantra here…It’s Just Lunch remember!  Relax, have a pleasant, upbeat demeanor and converse about interesting neutral topics to ease into getting to know someone.

Kacie B. followed this formula quite well, I must say.  This made her seem, kind of above all of the pettiness in the house.  She also seemed to care more about getting to know Ben and letting Ben get to know her, versus letting Ben get to know the drama in the house.

It would seem to me, that anyone who spends their time talking about the “game” is only interested in the game and not truly interested in finding love. Would you agree?