My It’s Just Lunch Date was a Billionaire

This morning, my client called Patti with her feedback from her date with my client Jack. She said that he was kind, very well spoken and well educated but it just did not seem to be a match. Why? Watch and listen in on this lunch date at Casa Oaxaca in DC.

Is Jack a billionaire dictator actor wanna be? Of course he isn’t. So why would our client, who has a good head on his shoulders, come out with comments to turn her away? The simple truth is that he did not really feel chemistry on the date. I know that she did not either. Instead of letting her know that there was no match there, Jack started making some crazy comments. His hope was that this would turn her off and she would not be interested. This way, he would not have to be the one to turn her down.

The best way to handle a match that you feel no chemistry for is to simply be upfront. Politely tell your date that while you enjoyed meeting them, you don’t feel any chemistry and wish them luck in their endeavors. Your Dating Diva has seen it before, and I know that if you politely let your date know that this just will not work, they will be appreciative and move on. The chances are that they are not feeling any chemistry either. What Jack did was leave Jill bewildered and thinking that we sent her out o a date with a crazy person. This is the furthest thing from the truth as we normally hear great feedback about Jack.

If you don’t feel you are a fit, be polite and move on. Remember you are not supposed to like everyone, that’s the point of dating! Be honest and sincere and always remember that It’s Just Lunch.